THE UGLY PHASE OF CAMPUS RELATIONSHIP





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Different from high school or primary where their freedom is limited and are supposed to behave in a manner dictated to them, students in campus are exposed to all manners of freedoms. Angaging in sexual behaviors, drugs and substance abuse or even chosing not to attend lectures is an issue of past once they join campus to farther their studies. Basically, one is free to do what he or she wishes at any given time.While enjoying these fancy life and liberty at the new enviros of campus, students are always prone to angage in romantic relationships. Yes, having a partner by your side whom you can share ideas and spend time with is nice. But does that really work at Campus?

Well, having experienced and observed my peers during my stay in University for close to two years now, I would basically conclude that it's disadvantages outweighs the advantage since many struggle and suffer in the course as a result of high expectations from their partners which inturn affect them both academically and socially.Some and this applies mostly to ladies are forced to partially drop out there schools to concentrate on their "wifely" duties as expected by their husbands. This usually wounds their academic progress and at times kills the goals. This discourages many parents and guardians.

Because these young couples normally opt to stay together and engage in unprotected sexual activities regularly, cases of unplanned early pregnancies are usually encountered. For fear of the responsibilities brought about by parental role, most of them decide to about which is not only risky to their lives but also a crime to humanity. The saddest part of angaging in these immoral behaviors is that many of them nolonger fear risks of deseases infections. 

In the case of boychild, he usually shoulder on husband responsibility in the relationship. His partner normally expects him to provide food and others pay rent. Normally they become broke, they opt to use their School fees to maintain their relationship while others usually sell laptops and phones. Others even go ahead to engage in criminal activities such as rubbery with violence amid to keep their relationship.

Statistics shows a high percentage of cumpas relationship do not Last..

Comments

  1. Dating is essential : especially in campus. I believe you can still do books and date. Distractions occur when a, relationship (s) is toxic. Dating is simply a learning tool to understand how relationship works. It's a preparatory school for future substantial union.There is no need to stick to a relationship that drains you mentally ,physically or even emotionally, tujifunze kujipenda!!!

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    1. Dee ushasema , ukweli mtupu πŸ”₯πŸ”₯ However an issue arises when an individual gets too much into relationship to e point of forgetting the reason that brought him or her to campus.
      Skipping classes to perform "wifely" duties would negativity affect academic progression.

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  2. Dating is optional in Campuses but mostly i think we should concentrate on books first

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    1. Au sio . I believe everything will fall to it's place when it's time comes. No need to complicate things.

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  3. Sometimes dating isn't worth it...like it drains you emotionally.. physically and even mentally

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  4. What a nice piece of info....keep it up.

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  5. Sometimes dating is not essential for our own mental health betterment

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  6. Nice article πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

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  7. πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ’―

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  8. You've articulated it so well Mike πŸ’―

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